Updated: Jul 26
🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀 Top of the mornin’ to you, In Ren Xue, the fundamental patterns of human nature are patterns that the consciousness form initially to meet basic needs for survival. The patterns of the consciousness are fixed ways of working with information. Once formed, patterns determine the way we think, relate to things and make judgments. Many factors participate in the formation of patterns, including basic and natural human needs, cultural and social environment, family and education. They co-exist, reinforce, and depend on one another. They also form the roots of many other patterns. Once established, they will influence all aspects of life beyond the level of basic needs, having unhealthy effect and imposing limitations on life. The day that I heard the ten fundamental patterns of human nature is a day that will always stand out for me and one that really changed my life. The one that really stood out was Hiding and Avoiding. Those two words together were something I felt I had been doing my entire life and they had gotten worse as time went on. I was so in over my head with things that I could not face that I had decided the best thing for me to do was live out of my van in San Francisco. Talk about a true hole to hide in. Only after working on the pattern of Avoiding and Hiding with a pattern coach have I been able to truly look at, deal with and let go of those things I couldn’t face. The funny thing about Avoiding and Hiding is that it is a master of hiding. It can be really hard to see within ourselves, but if we look with honesty, it’s not that hard to see at all. In fact, I had to realize that sometimes I would use other people as “excuses” for not wanting to do something, without taking responsibility for my own feelings and realizing those were my own excuses. All I had to accept was that I didn’t actually want to do whatever it was. This is just one small example of how Hiding and Avoiding can play out in our lives. When we talk about life cultivation coaching we are talking about working on any problem/goal that currently shows up in your life and identifying what patterns are in the way and changing it to a quality of the heart. We look forward to helping uncover and get rid of the tricks in our mind so that we can all enjoy more. Until then, we hope you’ll enjoy learning more about our other offerings below.
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